发现很多人都喜欢说“我老了”之类的话。

我也总喜欢说：“二十了，老了~”之类的话。却很少去想别人的感受。

其实很傻，真的很傻。

也许对于我们的人体来说，真的会慢慢衰老。但是对于整个世界来说，根本无所谓我们是老是少。

生活在其中的我们只不过是再微小不过的尘芥，所谓的老不过是身上添了几道纹路而已。

几个月前，我还会倚老卖老一下，但现在已经意识到：

其实，我还太小，

小到不知道应该怎么样和人沟通；

小到总是要伤害最爱我的人；

小到不明白社会的残忍；

小到不知道天高地厚、自负骄横；

小到不能及时对爱的人说一句“我爱你”；

小到还不会珍惜和尊重；

小到还不会宽容

我实在是愚昧之极！ 

最近瞄了下下大家的空间，发现有点民不聊生的氛围~~~~

大多数都懒懒的（除了土俊）----也许是平时太累了，所以在空间里都懒懒的吧~~~

还有一个共通点呢，就是大家貌似都有感情上的纠葛呢,哈~~~~

我们终于都长大了呢，也许再隔个几年，就都要结婚咯~~~~~~~

然后头像就都是婚纱照阿，再然后，也许就有宝宝了，于是头像又都变成宝宝们可爱的脸了，

呵呵~~~~~

于是，人生就这样，慢慢地、幸福地前行着——我们大家一起跨过一道道的坎，慢慢地走完我们的人生。

谢谢蔡，你空间里的音乐很温柔，让我想起了冬天多伦路上的斜照着阳光的景象，也给了早上的我一个好心情：）

明年的九月是我们四班认识十周年的日子了，我想向大家提前约明年十月国庆的时间，我们约好十月三、四、五日三天大家都空出来不安排其他的事好不好？我们一起为我们的十年友谊好好地庆祝一下吧~~~~~

初步的想法，是回学校和学校的周边走走，希望能在学校的草坪上picnic, 然后穿着中学的校服合影，再穿平时的装束合影；再有一次短途旅行。大家觉得怎么样呢？

Life is……(sign) whatever~~~

Since when I can stop coping with someone I really feel uncomfortable with?

Communication is really something…interesting.

If applied properly, creatures from two different species can perfectly get along with each other; if not, hatred might be created between even blood relatives.

There are numerous books teaching us how to carry out effective communication. However, to summarize, there are only two key points: open and relax.

Someone might ask what about people who is shy or introvert? What about cultural differences?

What about misunderstanding?.......

Yes, not everyone will manage to be open.

Then let’s make an assumption before we communicate: we are all kind guys, which means who won’t mean to hurt or offend the other unless we are hurt or offended first.

If this assumption works, then no matter how weird the guy right in front of you looks like, no matter what kind of wording or behavior they are applying, we can at least rest assured that they don’t mean sth. bad~~~~~~

Simple and easy, isn’t it?

But in practice, communication barriers are usually man-made, they don’t exits there as the work of god. Racial discrimination, arrogance, pride and prejudice, social hierarchy, all kinds of humans’ excuses to look down upon others for.

It seems that we prefer to bear some stereotypes in mind before we objectively judge others, in most cases not for better understanding but for reasonable despise in subconsciousness.

This creates misunderstanding between individuals, destroys cooperation between groups and contributes to conflict between countries.

Human always creates pains themselves to suffer from, to complain about, to make speeches on, to call on campaigns for, to trigger wars or conflicts for, to bleed for, to die for……And all those will finally be described as human’s great cause and leave their trace in thick history books only to be admired for those who repeat the process again and again.

Sarcastic, isn’t it?

We are just far from clever enough to learn from the past~~~~

又回到学校要开始读书了。

之前一年都有飘荡在外的感觉，经历了很多，很累。

这一年，我想回到学校，再重新学习下知识。

在外面工作了一年，觉得自己还有好多好多知识结构上的缺失，需要好好地补补。其实，我一直觉得学习是一种熏陶，我们未必一定要学到什么具型的东西， 重要的是我们受到了这种思维方法的熏陶，这就是一种潜移默化的长进。

最近，有好多事情发生，生活的变化也很大，所以，有些不安定。

希望能尽快地稳定下来~

很想你们，四班的兄弟姐妹们。